The Touchy Topic of Self-Touch

The Touchy Topic of Self-Touch

We all have a basic human need for physical affection – to be touched in ways that feel safe and comforting, or sometimes in ways that simply create pleasure.ย  A back rub can be relaxing. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ A long hug – nourishing. ๐Ÿ˜Œ Scratching an itch – incredibly...
Should You Raise or Lower Expectations?

Should You Raise or Lower Expectations?

Have you ever considered lowering expectations to avoid disappointment?ย  Guilty. ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ Iโ€™ve not only thought it, Iโ€™m pretty sure Iโ€™ve said it out loud – to myself and to my children. ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ ย  But what if I told you that when you expect the best outcome, it is...
How to Help Her When She’s Moody

How to Help Her When She’s Moody

Real quick – Tell me what word you would use to label this group of emotions: happy, joyful, confident, excited, victorious ๐Ÿ˜ Ok, how about these? angry, jealous, sad, lonely, scared ๐Ÿ˜ญ Did you use positive and negative? Good and bad? Healthy and unhealthy? When...
The Best DIY Tool for Girls’ Anxiety

The Best DIY Tool for Girls’ Anxiety

When things are unpredictable, itโ€™s normal to feel anxious (hello new school year; hello puberty).ย  When adults are anxious, kids absorb that anxiety and add it to their own, magnifying the impact. And when kids are anxious (like maybe now as they see the back to...
The Sexting Talk

The Sexting Talk

If you have a middle schooler or high schooler, NOW is a perfect time to have or update your Sexting Talk. Even if you think youโ€™ve had this chat, feel free to bring it up again, because once is never enough when it comes to adolescents learning important lessons....