Talking with Kids about Porn

Talking with Kids about Porn

Over the past 2 decades, kidโ€™s exposure to porn has become so common, it is now considered a normative experience rather than an exception. And the content, which is freely and easily accessible from any smartphone, has become more and more explicit, violent, and...
She Worries about Breast Cancer

She Worries about Breast Cancer

October means itโ€™s Breast Cancer Awareness Month, and I want you to know that your daughters are more aware than you know, and sometimes it makes them anxious. ๐Ÿ˜ฅ They take in messaging about the signs of breast cancer, like knots or lumps, and they worry โ€” especially...
If She’s Hesitant to Ask for Help

If She’s Hesitant to Ask for Help

The self consciousness that arrives during puberty for almost every girl isnโ€™t just related to her changing body. Her changing brain heightens her awareness of how others perceive her. Are they judging her? Most likely, she thinks they are, even when theyโ€™re not. A...
The Touchy Topic of Self-Touch

The Touchy Topic of Self-Touch

We all have a basic human need for physical affection – to be touched in ways that feel safe and comforting, or sometimes in ways that simply create pleasure.ย  A back rub can be relaxing. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ A long hug – nourishing. ๐Ÿ˜Œ Scratching an itch – incredibly...
Should You Raise or Lower Expectations?

Should You Raise or Lower Expectations?

Have you ever considered lowering expectations to avoid disappointment?ย  Guilty. ๐Ÿ™‹๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ Iโ€™ve not only thought it, Iโ€™m pretty sure Iโ€™ve said it out loud – to myself and to my children. ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ ย  But what if I told you that when you expect the best outcome, it is...